You Should Go and Love Yourself

In this picture I was totally asking what happened to the girl on the box. A where are they now if you will lol

Are you really Single if you have cookies ?

So I did a thing I took Boudoir Photos or probably more appropriately titled "Foodoir". I'm 27, single and have no prospects on the horizon but I don't see why I should be left out of the party! There will be people who say things like OMG you're so brave, confident etc cuz I dared show some thigh and cleavage and I'm not a size 2 but honestly I give 0 f*cks ( sorry mom) !I 'm at a point in my life where I really truly LOVE who I am and it feels SO good to be at this place in my life ! 
 I will probably never be sexy because anyone who knows me knows that I cant keep a straight face long enough for that sort of thing but this was such a fun experience for me. I spent my day making other women beautiful for their photos. They took for their husbands as anniversary gifts or for fiances as wedding presents which is so sweet and I hope to one day have a man who loves me enough to pose seductively on bed sheets but for now I've gotta make my own magic !  So after I finished glamming everyone else up I took of my pants off tousled my hair and took photos that are 100% me !
 I think the best compliment I've ever received was from a former boss, he said " Becca the thing I love most about you is that I know that at any given point in the day you are being 100% authentically yourself". That comment remains the nicest thing anyone has probably ever said to me because that wasn't always true, I didn't always love myself but now that I do I can't imagine going back. I know today is all about love and we celebrate out husbands and wives, boyfriends and girlfriends,but I want to encourage you all to never forget to love yourself. In the wise words of RuPaul " If you can't love yourself how in the hell you gonna love somebody else !?!" 

Happy Valentine's Day ! 

1 comment

  1. Honey I LOVE THIS!!! You rock for doing this post. Love your charisma and you are beautiful!!!

    Kelly Hoover