Lesson Learned : Part 3

DISCLAIMER : So this was supposed to be the last part of this story but I realized I lied and I'm maybe the worst ( don't worry I'll make it up to you at the end of the post I swear) . I underestimated how hard it would be to tell this story but I promised to tell it so I will ....

Remember how I told you we made a list of things we wanted to do well it was a pretty legit list. The last week of June DJ and I decided to take a trip to Austin,TX cuz why not ! I figured a 3 hour car ride was a solid way to decided if I could keep this guy around . I made a playlist for the car ( that was the first indication that I maybe actually really liked him) #EwFeelings . I also let him drive my car because tbh #lazy . We got to Austin and looking back on it and from what my God Mother told me that was likely the happiest I have ever been in a relationship . It was that gross blissfull honeymoon garbage. 

We stayed with my god parents and he met my whole tribe of god siblings the fact he didn't leave was astounding ! When we got there the kids screamed like a celebrity came to the door. Even though he and I were supposed to just hang and explore Austin my god brothers and sisters were like ya fat chance. I feel like they were basically approving him the whole time but I mean they're ages Infant to 14 so much like animals they're solid judges of character. They all basically gave me the ok as did my god parents at the time. On this trip I learned that for me he would do things he hated like shopping ( did I mention he was like crazy cheap not in a bad way but like in a I like deals way which could sometimes annoy me but whatever ) he took me to my most favorite restaurant ever and let me have ALL the things. NoRTH Italia I love you so much Bae it was just the best time . He took my tiny tribe out for burgers and let me wax his back cuz well I dunno what would make someone do those things with a girl they knew less than 3 months but he did and I was happy. 

Part of me thinks that right after this trip was when 2016 started acting like a Shit Show. Things just started going crazy pants in my personal life. I don't remember exactly what was going on but I remember being V stressed and crying a lot ( I remember being like bitch why are u crying put on some gangstah rap and handle it). I remember just being exhausted and crying on my way to do a wedding for a client and DJ called (mind you he had already calmed me down that am) he said I know this is short notice but do you wanna goto the country with me tomorrow and just unplug and meet my family. My initial response was I'll think about it because I was driving/crying /needed to pull it together before a clients wedding. After said wedding I was mostly just hungry so I only cared about Taco Diner and Sprinkles but once that went away I told him maybe unplugging was a good idea. So the next day we hit the road to go and meet his family ! 

So I was supposed to do this in 3 posts (ya that's not happening its gonna be longer than that) and I was supposed to post last Thursday (that also did NOT happen) so because I think y'all are the nicest readers and you read even after I unintentionally lie to you, I'm giving away a $25 Sephora gift card for loving this Hot Mess. Y'all are so wonderful  and supportive, you send me texts, emails and comments encouraging me when people suck or telling me that boys are jerks and I'm awesome. I don't think you know what that means for this weird kid ! So to win just comment on this post that's all ! You guys are my favorite !